I hate being a virgin? but im only 12?

okay im a 12 yr old girl and I HATE THATIM A VIRGIN! its kills me bc my sister always talks to me about how i need to tay a virgin for a while bc she lost hers at 12 ! my bfis 12 and hes tired of being a virgin too but everytime it almost happened i didnt let it! i gave him a bj and he ate me out 3 tiems but thts not really the same thing! plzz help!